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December 3, 2023

12 years gone

At 12 years, I don’t have anything to say. It’s much easier when numbers are leading up to 10. 10 is a
November 5, 2023

The woman on the plane

“My husband died in March,” she said. It tumbled out of her mouth, gently but quickly, like a glass of water overflowing.
October 2, 2023

Cease & Desist

photo: @anodetothewild Below, my most recent Instagram post: On August 31st, I received a “cease and desist” letter from the lawyer of
September 20, 2023

Spiritual Cults Continued

photo: @anodetothewild — This piece is a further collection of posts I have been sharing on Instagram (@demetragray__) about my experience in
August 26, 2023

Spiritual Cults

photo: @anodetothewild Below is a compilation of the writing that I have posted on my Instagram over the past few weeks, on
July 21, 2023

Why I Chose to Marry My Husband

I often thought when I was younger that I would never get married. I identified as being non-committal, and I couldn’t imagine
June 7, 2023


When I started thinking about writing this piece, I was trying to remember how long it had been since I said I