Dress up for yourself
Your pleasure begins with you.
Your pleasure is FOR you, not for anybody else.
Increasing pleasure comes from all the moments nobody else sees.
The moments you eat bread and chocolate for lunch and moan the entire time. When you take baths instead of working. When you dance to the slinkiest music.
When you wear your favorite dresses even though no one else will see you. When you read erotica for fun.
It comes from the minutes you take to smell a flower. From stopping to look at the moon and feel the sun on your skin.
From the boundaries you set around what you won’t accept from others. From taking sexy photos of yourself way more often than you share them with your lovers.
Pleasure increases your resiliency – it teaches your body it is safe, and gets it out of stress mode.
Increasing pleasure increases your embodied sexual energy.
It’s the thing that will make everyone’s head turn when you walk down the street.
It’s your magnetism.
It’s what makes your eyes sparkle like there’s a secret only you know. It’s what makes you enchanting.
It’s what makes people say, I’ve never met anyone like you before.
That overflow of sexual energy is a gift to the rest of the world.
The OVERFLOW is what you get to share with your lovers.
It’s not coming from them. It’s not for them.
It comes from you. It’s cultivated by you.
And it’s for you.
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