Your pleasure begins with you. ⁣⁣⁣
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Your pleasure is FOR you, not for anybody else. ⁣⁣⁣
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Increasing pleasure comes from all the moments nobody else sees. ⁣⁣⁣
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The moments you eat bread and chocolate for lunch and moan the entire time. When you take baths instead of working. When you dance to the slinkiest music. ⁣⁣
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When you wear your favorite dresses even though no one else will see you. When you read erotica for fun. ⁣⁣⁣
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It comes from the minutes you take to smell a flower. From stopping to look at the moon and feel the sun on your skin. ⁣⁣

From the boundaries you set around what you won’t accept from others. From taking sexy photos of yourself way more often than you share them with your lovers. ⁣⁣⁣
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Pleasure increases your resiliency – it teaches your body it is safe, and gets it out of stress mode. ⁣⁣⁣
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Increasing pleasure increases your embodied sexual energy. ⁣⁣⁣
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It’s the thing that will make everyone’s head turn when you walk down the street. ⁣⁣⁣
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It’s your magnetism. ⁣⁣⁣
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It’s what makes your eyes sparkle like there’s a secret only you know. It’s what makes you enchanting. ⁣⁣⁣
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It’s what makes people say, I’ve never met anyone like you before. ⁣⁣⁣
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That overflow of sexual energy is a gift to the rest of the world. ⁣⁣⁣
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The OVERFLOW is what you get to share with your lovers. ⁣⁣⁣
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It’s not coming from them. It’s not for them. ⁣⁣⁣
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It comes from you. It’s cultivated by you. ⁣⁣⁣
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And it’s for you. ⁣

 

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