Connecting with pussy
It would make sense if you didn’t feel a connection to your pussy at all.
If you were raised female, you’ve probably had a lifetime of completely ignoring what this area of your body really wants, really feels, really thinks.
We often have experienced endless crossing of our boundaries, whether violent or subtle -
if we were even confident enough or taught that we could set them in the first place.
My pussy often knows better than I do what I want. She knows what is right. She is the source of my deepest power.
And there were many days when I started connecting with her that she did not want to talk to me. She felt hurt, and ignored.
She felt violated. She didn’t trust me. And that was totally understandable.
I had to be gentle with her. I had to start saying no to sex pretty much all the time, until she trusted that I would understand her full yes.
The journey with my creativity has been the same – bc our sexual energy IS our creative energy. I cannot force myself to create things, now, that my pussy is a “no” to. I won’t do that to her.
I don’t do anything she doesn’t want to do. If I try, my body knows it and I feel miserable immediately.
When I follow her creatively, I’m rewarded with energy, ideas, and money.
When I listen to her sexually, she responds by being dripping wet, orgasming deeply and fully in never-ending waves that make me scream and growl and cry and totally surrender.
But that means I also have to listen to her “no.” And I have to connect with her.
Your pussy can also be the source of your infinite power, if you choose.
But you have to learn to connect with her
xo
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